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I am about to live with my new partner, what should I do?
Splitting up may be the last thing on your mind, but now could be the
best time to make arrangements for what will happen should the relationship
fail, especially if you are buying property together. We can make sure that
the property is owned exactly as you both intend, thereby preventing a
potentially expensive dispute if you later decide to separate. If you both
want to arrange in more detail what should happen on a separation, then we
can prepare a 'Cohabitation Contract' for you.
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I am about to get married, how do I protect my
property in case things do not work out?
If your spouse-to-be agrees, we can prepare a 'Pre-Nuptial Agreement'
for you, to deal with all aspects of the marriage breakdown, including
arrangements for money and property.
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My cohabitee and I are separating, how can you help?
Whilst you do not have the same rights as you would have if you were
married, there are still a number of matters that we can help you with.
These include what is to happen to the property you and your partner lived
in, arrangements for children (see below) and maintenance for the children
(also see below).
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I am separating from my spouse, but don't want a divorce,
what should I do?
Assuming that the marriage cannot be annulled, there are two
possibilities: a 'Judicial Separation', or simply a separation without any
court proceedings, at least at this stage. If the latter, you will still
want to sort out arrangements for any children finances and property, and we
can draw up a 'Separation Agreement' to ensure (so far as possible) that
those arrangements are adhered to.
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How do I get a divorce?
There is only one ground for divorce: that the marriage has
irretrievably broken down. We can advise you whether this is the case, and
if so, we can prepare the divorce papers and thereafter deal with all steps
in the procedure up to the Decree Absolute.
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How much should I pay for the children?
Unless you and the other parent agree otherwise, the amount of child
maintenance you have to pay will be calculated by reference to the formula
used by the Child Support Agency. Essentially, this will mean that you will
have to pay 15% of your net income for one child, 20% for two children and
25% for three or more children. There are, however, exceptions to this - we
will advise you if this is the case.
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We are getting divorced - who gets what?
The division of property on a separation or divorce is governed by
complex rules. The starting point in most cases is that all assets,
including property savings and pensions, are divided equally. However, there
are many reasons why this may not be appropriate, for example where one
party's needs are much greater than the other party's, or where one party
has made a much greater financial contribution than the other party. We will
be able to advise you in detail as to what is an appropriate settlement in
your case.
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Can you help me sort out arrangements for the children?
Whether there is a dispute as to with whom your child/children will
reside, or you cannot agree contact arrangements, we can help you. We can
also help if there is some other specific problem relating to the children,
such as changing their surname, or if you are their father and want
'Parental Responsibility' for them, where you are not married to their
mother. Whatever the problem, we will try to deal with it wherever possible
in a constructive way, as it is usually far better to agree arrangements for
children, rather than have them imposed upon you by a court.
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I am scared he will be violent - what should I do?
No one should suffer violence in the home. We can help you take whatever
steps are necessary to ensure it doesn't happen to you. If necessary, we can
help you to apply to a court for an order forbidding your partner/spouse
from using or threatening violence against you, and in extreme circumstances
the court can even order your partner/spouse to leave the home.
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What is it going to cost?
Whatever the problem, we will advise you at the outset of our current
charging rates and we will give you an initial estimate of how much it will
cost to deal with your matter. Please note, however, that we charge on the
basis of the amount of work done on your matter, and it is not always
possible to ascertain this at the start of the matter. If it becomes clear
that the initial estimate is substantially incorrect, then we will give you
a revised estimate. We also offer an initial interview of up to thirty
minutes for a fixed fee of £50 plus VAT.
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Why should I pay for a solicitor
when I can buy a D.I.Y. divorce kit from a supermarket for £14.99?
Such kits contain little more than a set of blank forms and some simple
advice, all of which you could obtain for free from your local County Court.
We offer a complete service, not just filling in forms but dealing with all
steps in the proceedings and advising you throughout - advice that is
tailored to your particular matter. Even if you think your case is
straightforward, there may well be some aspect that you have not considered,
and there can be many pitfalls in even the simplest cases. It is not unusual
for people who have been acting for themselves to come to us to sort out
problems that they have run into - often, it costs more to resolve such
problems than it would have if we had been instructed from the outset.
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Can I
change my/my child's name?
Generally, any adult can change their name at any time. To change a
child's name you may need the consent of the other parent, or a court order
- we will be able to advise you upon this. We can prepare a Change of Name
Deed, which you can use as proof of the name change.
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